Friday, January 29, 2010

1-29-10: How Would You Be Named Today?

“What would your family, friends, teachers, and peers name you today based on your behavior?” This question, posed by today’s chapel speaker, Mary Keller, is based on the Native American (Native Peoples) concept of naming a person. In Native Peoples’ traditions, a person has multiple names: a secret name given by the mother at birth and known only by the mother and the Creator; and common names that change throughout life based on that person’s temperament, behavior, talents, or actions. Sometimes these names are not always flattering.

Imagine the impact in the world if people were referred to by their actions – “He Who Steals” or “She Who Lies.” Or in a more positive light, “He Who is a Peacemaker” or “She Who Embodies Goodness.”

In a Native Peoples story, a grandfather tells his grandson that there are two wolves within him that are in constant conflict; one who is angry and hateful, and one that is full of joy and goodness. The grandson asks, “Which one of the wolves wins?” Replies the grandfather: “The one that I feed.”

This story illustrates the potential each person has to fuel hate and anger or to create beauty and peace. Today think about your actions and how they reflect upon you. How would you feel to be named by what you have done today?

Monday, January 11, 2010

1-11-10: "Think about your God moments"

Most high school students don't spend much time thinking about what it's like to retire and grow old. In this morning's chapel, two Dock Woods residents, both in their 80s, gave students a window into the experience—and assured them there's nothing to be afraid of.

“Living doesn’t stop when we age. Life is just different,” said Joyce Shultz, who has lived at Dock Woods with her husband Harlan for nearly four years now. “We take more time to do things, but we have more time. Our faith is often stronger because we have had so many blessings and answers to our prayers. We no longer feel like we have to impress anyone—and we realize that we never did. And we realize that life has more joy when you are helping and serving others.”

The Shultz's give evidence to the idea that life begins—or at least begins again—at retirement. Harlan spent three years in the Navy and then enjoyed a 35-year career at Standard Pressed Steel. When he retired at at age 62, he fulfilled a lifelong dream by getting his pilot's license, and spent over a year building his own plane.

"My life has been full," he told students. "You have a lot to look forward to. Don't dread it."

Joyce was a teacher in the North Penn School District for 24 years. When she retired at age 60 she began a second career as a psychotherapist, and also took up writing. She now is the author or co-author of three books, including Models in Our Midst, an autobiography which also tells stories about the people who influenced her life, and It Takes a Church: God Moments of a Church Family, a collection of stories from people ages 13-90 at her church, Sanctuary United Methodist in North Wales. They are the kind of books she encourages everyone to write.

"Each evening we share our God moments from the day, and I keep them in a gratitude journal," Joyce said. "That’s our challenge—to think each day about the God moments in our lives and what we are grateful for.”


Wednesday, January 6, 2010

1-4-10: "In Him There is No Darkness at All"

The hustle and bustle of the holiday season is over. The packages have been opened, the parties thrown, and the last of the pork and sauerkraut has been eaten. It seems as though were have been abruptly hurdled into a period of quiet and dark. But in today’s chapel we were reminded that this short church season of Epiphany is a burst of light in that darkness. It is a reminder that the light will return as we move through the cold, dark months of January, February, and March, and into the Easter season.

Even in our times of darkness, whether a physically earthly darkness or a period of emotional turmoil, we are never alone. To demonstrate this point, Mr. Bush shared a portion of a sermon entitled Thoughts on Day and Night, given by Sr. Pastor Michael B. Brown of Central UMC, Asheville, NC, in the early 1990s (Bergland):

"We deal with anger, rejection, grief, fear, economic stress, isolation, guilt, divorce, abusive relationships, chemical dependency, depression…and the list goes on. And most of all we fear that there is no way out – that we are abandoned to our pain – that night has fallen, and dawn will never come, and we are desperately alone. To those fears our morning lesson says: 'Darkness covers the face of the deep, while a wind from God swept…Then God said, ‘Let there be light.’; and there was light' (vv. 2-3). In other words, in our loneliness, we are not alone. The Spirit of God is present and moving. In our darkness, there is the promise of light. In our struggles, there is the unfailing love and nearness of one who is greater that whatever the world can throw our way.

"In the beautiful North Carolina mountains there is a host of stories about Native Americans indigenous to our region. I have always loved the one about the ritual of initiation for Cherokee boys who were crossing into manhood. Around age ten or eleven, the youngster would be taken by his father deep into the Pisgah forest. Dad would give his son a bow and one arrow. As darkness descended, the father would leave his son alone in the forest to prove his bravery by facing the frightening sounds of the night. Most of the young boys did not sleep much. Every hoot of an owl sounded like a threatening voice. Every cracking twig conjured up images of a bear or bobcat on the prowl. Every rush of wind sounded like whispers of the enemy in the forest. However, when daylight began to break, the young brave would spot another Cherokee off in the distance beside a tree. It would be his father, who had been there all night long, sitting silently nearby, watching, making certain that his child never actually had to face the darkness alone.

"So it is with us. However dark and desperate things may feel, God is near – always watching, always caring, always protecting us from facing the darkness alone – and always promising that in due time God will separate the darkness from the light, and the dawn of joy and peace will break upon our weary souls again. It will happen for you, however you may doubt it. God has not abandoned you to the nighttime. It will happen. The voice will sound: 'Let there be light!' And in time your shadows will disappear.”

Remind yourself as you are going about your daily routine that no matter how tough things get, you are never alone.

Bergland, John K., ed. Abington Preacher’s Annual 1994. Nashville: Abington Press, 1993.